bipolar mother threatening to sue her daughter

(My mother tries to blame my husband for stealing her away from her and thinks she is in this predicament because of my husband.  For years I have ignored her abusive behavior to me and to others.  And, the next day she tells me to simply erase all her nasty text messages and everything is just fine.  At times she acts like a spoiled 4 year old and demands attention at all hours of the day and night.)

My HIGHER POWER just delivered! I do not refer to my HP as Big Chief White Cloud Dear Grandmama stuck in place after living INDEPENDENTLY for 50 YEARS! (Rick my neighbor who is moving found a Sugar Mama who bought a home! Love it we live in age of Sugar Mamas! Back to June-Although she was married to Sam for 20 0f the 50 years it was really her $ that gave them all extras to travel to Denmark & Europe His kids did NOT know his employer refused to pay his pension at 60 in a lump sum because business was bought out and new owners wanted stiff him. As an accountant he knew got better deal if he took $ in lump sum buyout because it’s all to chance or crap shoot on monthly pension for “life”. When new owners come in. He had get attorney & sue & they lived in mobile for year no money $ yet finish geodesic dome house. I worried for her cause she really wanted to remarry to point made some missteps and tried to overdose. Her friend Ann found her. We went right away. Back then they did NOT put person in Funny Farm like now they just pumped her stomach and gave her hotline phone number to call IF & asked if we’d be there for her & now she’s 97! Bob need quit the crap about I have a DEATH WISH.” The only time I seriously tried self harm was when I was raped and a street smart 14 year old girl told me I was probably pregnant . I took bottle Bayer aspirin Famiky size. I vomited. My Mother knew about it and called school & said I had flu cause she always lies & covers up. She knew I was seriously depressed and so did school. I still kept up A grades but did not talk in class. I was evaluated by “school psychologist” who told my Mother but not my working Dad I was emotionally disturbed and may need care home for emotionally disturbed adolescents. Did that happen? No but my Mother kept that like a an Ace card in her deck of emotional abuse & periodically threatened to send me away from my Dad & my siblings to “just be rid of you,” I I NEVER AGAIN WANT TO DO THE MY MOTHERS ABUSED ME WORSE THAN YOUR MOTHER WITH BOB. Keep him in check or I will NOT cooperate with Waterford and report You Both for overstepping you’re DPOA legal grounds. My Attorney cautioned me & said IF THAT HAPPENED CALL HER. Immediately she will freeze your savings account and restore my legal rights to choosing my own home. I DO NOT WANT TO DO THIS BECAUSE I LOVE YOU AND STILL TRY TO TRUST YOU. BOB HAS NO LEGAL GROUNDS TO SAY HE HAS OR WE HAVE “LEGAL POWER OVER YOU!” Travis is your alternate ONLY & attorney knew what she was doing! Travis can restore $75K to me & I will then move to Vancouver WA/CA. Does Bob even care U tried to be a fair & decent Mother In Law giving him $15K like you in 2018 & gifts equal to yours ISN’T OLD FOR ME TO SAY I CARE ABOUT YOU BOTH AND THEN BOB TREATS ME LIKE A MONSTER-IN-LAW! I had a terrific Mother-In-Law and lost her in the divorce! It was worse than selling the Saffron sailboat to pay for the boat! I think your Dad feels same about Gene. Back June-she got herself a sweet husband w family issues w his wife committing suicide and his soon ex son-in-law shooting himself and leaving note in mailbox then Sam assumed financial and granddad parenting for Wade. Only the lesbian daughter fully supported herself cause his son was addicted to street drugs & his other daughter to alcohol! My worry for Trish is her Father was an alcoholic  & so was a brother & sister and Connie too. She’s surrounded by alcoholics and her brother at times is borderline- that’s when he makes his worst life bloopers. So we’re equal he & I (I was common bipolar back then with severe depressions) He is full on workaholic to STAY OFF BOOZE-Chivas Regal scotch=McCallan 12!That’s how I know Siegel’s Liquor Store back in day. I self medicated with wine of all varieties mainly fine wine. We were not cheap alchoies! I used fine wine & vodka drinks to manage bipolar and he drank wine to stay off hard stuff like Maker’s Mark & Chivas as he called it. We also had the ubiquitous Globe Liquor “cabinet” and served it liberally at our dinner parties & brunches. I wanted to protect you from the dual Family Skeltons in Our Proverbial Closet!! Bob says I have a supposed “Death Wish” because I am Bi-Polar? BULLSHIT! I have signed at least 1/2 dozen NO suicidal ideation contracts. Will I never! I try to NEVER because of you Travis and Liz fears me going that way & brought it up recently when they returned The Jazz Players before you arrived in front of Tim! I really like & trust Tim because he is caring and nonjudgmental! How? Living with his single Mother who struggled & made Big Mistakes while his Father typically “started over “ with new family by marriage. It took years for their Dad to re-connect only when adults. IF BOB KEEP YELLING & THREATENS ME AGAIN I WILL NOT FIGHT BACK. I WILL GET LEGAL COUNSEL FROM ELDER LEGAL ADVOCATES OF TEXAS I DO NOT THREATEN TO SUE LIKE MY MOTHER -JUST PROTECT ME EVEN BROKE

HOW BROKE 💰AM I? For Covid 19 I will barely be able live at Waterford plus your “savings” will be reported by Well Fargo to US Treaury because no one can move more than $10000 and you will need prove it’s yours. They will audit both our tax returns for 2017 2018 2019 to track $ IF THEY DETERMINE I GAVE YOU $ NOT YOURS I WILL OWE 50% GIFT TAX OR $48K in tax Please pay off your debts NOW up to $20K cause that will save me $10K gift tax. Who advised! NOT AN ATTORNEY! Google or Magnificent Carl?

SHE ALSO SENT ME THIS SHORTER TEXT MESSAGE.  I GUESS SHE THINKS SHE NEEDS A VACATION IN VANCOUVER.  I DON'T KNOW HOW SHE IS GOING TO GET THERE OR WHO IS GOING TO TAKE HER.

LAST DITCH PACKING REPORT

Christopher came down w roll of packing tape & helped me tape Rick’s large boxes together and then we filled them with towels blankets & decorative pillows. My day was sad again when Mickey Mouse mug slipped out of my hand as I was protectively packing it (right before Christopher came) and broke on kitchen floor into unfixable pieces I cried and glad he arrived to soothe me and tell me a lot of his dishes broke as he moved here and he packed them with foam carefully! I am worn out completely but bathroom big pantry laundry room walk-in closet done! Guesstimate still have 2 hours taping boxes and staging in bedroom. Am now UO to 24 maybe 26 boxes 4 large bins and 8 small bins plus misc like ironing board will not fit on box I will also tape drawers closed and protective plastic cover on the appliance cart to be sure arrives like new no scratches or missing drawers

Certainly I am 95% packed with ez loose ends & Rick actually gave me 8 boxes and Christopher gave me his leftover packing tape which need return what’s left. He really helped in after 5PM push finish packing. Shower curtain & liner washed great so are my 2 masks! Got Fage yogurt 2 plus your Kit Kat dark mint chocolate bars and Cranberry Juice & I will keep cherry juice to cut down on frig/freezer food Last kitchen packing few dishes -afraid I will break something else and cry. At least HK mug OK! I so wanted that Mickey Mouse mug as my favorite tea mug. Need ask you or buy one. Will take break soon order tower fan that revolves w remote and not sure about TV cable so wait. Hope bed is coming in one piece as I am already sleep deprived and need bed not floor. Turning on Classic Rock music cause too sad my collection dvr movies gone like The Help & Green Fried Tomatoes and NEW Hallmark mystery movies plus Prop Bros Celebrity IOU & other HGTV shoes & Pioneer Woman cooking shows w Ree Drummond. Why am I being sent back to 1990s limited channels NO dvr YOU WOULD NOT GO FOR THAT EVEN “FREE” IT’s NOT FREE I PAY $1850 MONTH FOR TINY APT MAYBE 200 TO 250 SQ FT LIVING SPACE FOR LIVING DINING KITCHEN IF CALL IT THAT AND ART. WITH REALITY SETTING IN ONE DAY I MUST BEEN DREAMING TO THINK LIVE IN TINY HOME/PLACE IT’s A CRACKER BOX AT BEST EVEN BOB DOES NOT WANT TO VISIT ME THERE THEN YOU WON’T VISIT OR DRACULA PUPPY LET ALONE TRAVIS AND JORDAN DID BOB EVER READ THE CLASSIC “THE DOLLHOUSE” WHERE THIS WOMAN WAS KEPT NO SUPPORT OR CONSIDERATION FOR HER? WILL I EVER HAVE CONVERSATION THAT DOES NOT REFERENCE DO YOU WANT TO JOIN MY CHURCH OR .... BOB WOULD PUKE!!! In Vancouver at least I’d be with my own kind-we’re called disrespectfully bleeding heart liberals. My heart bleeds because except for Ruby I am going to live in Conservative Central for NOT SO OLD GIZZERS. Someone will gossip about me-I must be crazy and guess what you’re right!