MY BIPOLAR MOTHER

I am the daughter of a bipolar mother. My experiences with my mother, family, and friends teach me everyone's reality is different and perception is the friend or the foe of the day. I am hoping my posts give insight to those who are curious and give comfort to those who see a parallel. I invite feedback and look forward to collaboration. It is my focus to spread joy, even on dark days. Smiles can be effortless or the workout of the day. Thanks for reading!

Monday, June 15, 2020

when you hang up on a Bipolar person, bipolar disorder


HANGING UP ON A PERSON WITH BIPOLAR



(got these text messages the other night from her:  It was directed to my husband because he hung up on her while my mother was ranting over the phone and wouldn't calm down or be quiet.  My mother has a tendency to bully anyone who doesn't bend to her will.)



ZIP FROM ME IN “NICE” From YOUR HUSBAND FIRST ONLY YOU & TRAVIS CAN LEGALLY REPRESENT MY LEGAL LEASE EARLY NOTICE IT MUST BE DONE IN WRITING 60 DAYS PRIOR TO MOVE OUT

HE IS not TO REPRESENT IN ANY FINANCIAL LEGAL MEDICAL MATTER EVEN IF YOU RUN AWAY FROM THIS BS ONLY TRAVIS CAN!!! BOB IS TOTALLY OUT SETTING ME UP FOR FAILURE RATHER THAN SUCCESS HE IS VERBALLY ABUSIVE KEEP HIM OUT & AWAY OR I WILL HAVE NO CHOICE GET THIRD PARTY LEGAL ADVOCATE TO HELP ME GET TO WATERFORD

DOES HE YELL THIS WAY AT YOU? WHAT KIND MARRIAGE IS THAT? HE YELLS & BULLIES THEN YOU GIVE IN? I WANT SOMEONE LIKE LEGAL ADVOCATE WHO WILL DEAL WITH STONELEIGH CALMLY BUT USE LEGAL GROUNDS FOR RElEASE NO MORE VERBAL ABUSE! IDO NOT TAKE ABUSE AFTER MY MOTHER & BROTHER ET AL

TO THINK ANOTHER BULLY RUNS HK WHAT AN INSULT TO GRANDPA’s & DADDY’s LEGACY - A MAN WHO DID NOT LOSE HIS TEMPER OR YELL I’VE HAD ENOUGH BULLYING JUST STEP BACK & ALLOW ME MY SISTER LIZ TO. REPRESENT ME CAUSE I KNOW TIM WILL NOT YELL OR BULLY ME!













For MR BULLY”s EDUCATION I PLANNED A CALM FUN WEEKEND FOR MYSELF I HAD 2 SIMPLE ?s 1. DO I TAKE DEPAKOTE? YES 2. IF MR BOB HAD SAID UPFRONT FIRST TIME AT TOP EVENING “GOOD NEWS JUDI YOU ARE COVERED BY TEXAS LAW FOR CANCELLING YIUR LEASE EARLY BECAUSE OF LEGAK CODE XYZ.” I’D HAVE NEVER EVEN BOTHERED GETTING LEASE OUT!!!!! I ALLOW ONE DO OVER THEN I HAVE NO CHIOCE BUT TO HAVE YOU SOLELY ACT ON MY BEHALF NO APOLOGY ON EITHER PART AS I AM JUST GETTING LEVEL & HE TRIGGERED A SERIOUS MANIC UPSET. I CALLED LIZ TO CALM ME BECAUSE GOD KNOWS I CANNOT EXPECT CALM & EVEN FROM MR BOB

YOU WANT TALK TO ME IN MY HOME COME SOLO FOR AWHILE DRACULA IS WELCOME

WHAT HAPPENED TO NC FAMILY & WE RESPECTED EACH OTHER’s BOUNDARIES

JUST LIKE SETTING EXPECTATION I WOULD RESIST LIVING AT WATERFORD BECAUSE SOME OTHER FAIMLY MEMBER RESISTED!!!!! I ONLY CONCERNED ABOUT HEALTHY FOOD PLAN ALSO I DO NOT GIVE S@@@ ABOUT $ YOU & BOB CAN HAVE IT! I AM SOMEONE WHO PUTS FAMILY PEOPLE ABOVE $

TRUST ME NEXT TIME HE WILL NOT HANG UP I WILL IF HE SO MUCH AS HURTS YOU DO NOT TAKE SPELLED D-I-V-O-R-C-E I MEAN THAT & HAVE TRUST ISSUES WITH HIM NOW BEFORE OVER 30 YEARS I RESPECTED & TRUSTED HIM

HE TRIGGERED ME!!! DOES HE KNOW WHAT THAT MEAN

HE’d MAKE LOUSY MENTAL HEALTH ADVOCATE! Verbally berating me when I’m trying to prevent relapse & maintain recovery I DESIGNATED ONLY YOU TO REPRESENT ME IF TOU WANT WALK CAUSE HK I CAN FIND ALTERNATE

HE IS NOT POSITIVE FOR ME BE AROUND

I LOVE YOU & HOPE GOD HE DOES NOT BULLY AND YELL AT YOU.

He needs counseling!





I am afraid of Bob M. & trying sleep Taken ALL meds and including Tylenol for pain I have calmed and just ask he not come here for at least week or until after next Father’s Day weekend What causes his temper outbursts I trigger them but am NOT cause of his negative actions best take break maybe 2 weeks Stay on your own goals & work I do NOT need hear repeated negative talk from him I want him to first get help for his own  Rather than worse

Get help I do care













































































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